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Pitch-A-Friend wants you to be the wingmate
MINNEAPOLIS -- Dressed in “Team Lisa” T-shirts, two friends posing as savvy business-minded “Sharks” ran through a tight presentation of why any potential investor in the audience would be smart to date their friend.
“When you invest in Lisa you invest in your own future,” they said, as part of their “Shark Tank”-themed ...Read more
Ask Anna: How do I tell if a guy is moving slowly or wasting my time?
Dear Anna,
I’m 28 and have been seeing a guy around my age for a few months. We clicked fast in conversation — texting every day and even saying good night, sharing long voice notes, that kind of early-stage excitement — but because of work and conflicting schedules, we’ve only managed a handful of actual dates.
Last week was my ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: How do I ask about his long-term goals?
Today, let’s look at two different questions from two different clients. As always, if one person asks, I can only assume it is applicable to a larger audience.
And, interestingly enough, you’ll see that these questions are applicable to any gender and any age.
Q: I wanted to have a conversation with (him) about his more long-term goals ...Read more
Commentary: Could China's divorce reforms inspire fairer American marriages?
Marriage rates in the United States have plummeted nearly 60% since 1970, hitting historic lows amid rising divorce risks and financial pitfalls. This decline isn’t primarily a gender war but a finance-based crisis: The specter of divorce as a wealth transfer discourages commitment.
Enter China’s bold 2025 divorce law reforms, effective Feb...Read more
Ask Anna: I found a dating app receipt in my girlfriend's email and I'm spiraling
Dear Anna,
I’m a 29-year-old guy and I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. We’ve always had what I thought was a solid, committed relationship. We live separately but spend most nights together, talk about future plans, the whole thing. I trusted her completely. Last week, while she was showing me something on her ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: Should I pay for the dating apps?
Every day, I get the question, from both clients and friends, “Should I pay for the dating apps?” And when they are referring to the apps, they are referring to the ones like Hinge and Bumble where the basic services are free but there are in-app upgrades. (Sites like Match.com and eHarmony require payment in order to communicate with people...Read more
People are dumping Tinder. The dating app wants to reignite its spark with Gen Z
LOS ANGELES — More than a decade ago, Tinder became the hottest dating app, transforming modern romance by making it possible for singles to swipe through people's profiles, match and meet up.
Now, Tinder is fighting to keep the flame alive. Sometimes in unexpected ways.
Last month, it convinced UCLA students to meet in a big group in the ...Read more
People are dumping Tinder. The dating app wants to reignite its spark with Gen Z
LOS ANGELES — More than a decade ago, Tinder became the hottest dating app, transforming modern romance by making it possible for singles to swipe through people's profiles, match and meet up.
Now, Tinder is fighting to keep the flame alive. Sometimes in unexpected ways.
Last month, it convinced UCLA students to meet in a big group in the ...Read more
Ask Anna: What to do when your partner feels insecure about your past
Dear Anna,
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year, and for the most part things are great. We’re both pretty sentimental people, but in different ways. I save things — not in a hoarder way, but I’ve kept shoeboxes of old letters, birthday cards and printed photos from past relationships going back to college. I don’t ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: How do I tell someone I don't want to see them again?
Why is it that something that should seem so easy – telling someone you’re not interested – is so hard for so many people? I certainly understand that no one wants to hurt someone’s feelings. But, in saying nothing (ghosting, if you will), you’re doing a lot more damage to their feelings than simply telling a high-level version of the ...Read more
Ask Anna: My girlfriend gets turned on by outside attention -- what to do?
Dear Anna,
I'm a 31-year-old man in a relationship with my girlfriend (29) for three years. Last week right after we’d had sex, she told me she'd been really turned on earlier that day because a guy at her gym had been flirting with her pretty heavily. She said it like it was just a fun, sexy confession, like she thought I'd find it hot or ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: How do I write a profile to attract the person I'm looking for?
Writing a dating profile can feel daunting. There’s no disputing that, even if you only have to write 750 characters about yourself (that’s about average for most of the dating apps these days … very short, I know). It’s still hard to figure out which exact 750 characters to share.
Too often, a client comes to me asking, “How do I ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: How do I write a profile to attract the person I'm looking for?
Writing a dating profile can feel daunting. There’s no disputing that, even if you only have to write 750 characters about yourself (that’s about average for most of the dating apps these days … very short, I know). It’s still hard to figure out which exact 750 characters to share.
Too often, a client comes to me asking, “How do I ...Read more
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