Life Advice
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Struggling Daughter Seems Uninterested In Helping Herself
DEAR ABBY: I am the single mom of a 19-year-old daughter who copes with bipolar 2, ADHD, anxiety and depression. She has a mental age that's younger than her adult self. Over the years, she has gone through therapy and changes in medication.
It has been recommended that my daughter attend a residential therapy program, but she refuses. Since ...Read more
Wife Who Married Young Has Often Heard She Missed Out
DEAR ABBY: I married when I was 20 and my husband was 32. I grew up with a conservative view of marriage, so in a sense, I believed marrying early would grant me the most freedom as a woman. We have been married for five years and have a child.
Over the years, many people have offered unsolicited advice about how I "missed out on my 20s," or ...Read more
Daughter Hides Illness From Centenarian Mother
DEAR ABBY: I have cancer. I have been expecting to be diagnosed with it since I was a teen. It is my family's disease. My mother is 100 and still has her faculties, but she is frail. I have shared the diagnosis with my children, and I assume they told my grandchildren. My husband and my best friend know of my condition. The doctors say that ...Read more
Elderly Father Is Keen To Hit The Open Road
DEAR ABBY: At 82, my father continues to live alone and unassisted. He's generally in good healt, but is starting to recognize that he won't be forever. One thing he really wants to do while he still can (or thinks he can) is take a road trip -- by himself -- to visit his sister on the other side of the country.
He regularly does shorter drives...Read more
Computer Repair Leads To Upsetting Discovery
DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my wife for three years. She asked me to fix her old computer. As I was doing that, I saw emails from her ex, "Doug," dated a few months before our wedding. They started with the usual greetings, then proceeded to steamy back-and-forth emails.
They set up a time to talk, and Doug suggested they use FaceTime. It...Read more
Husband Is A Mad Scientist In The Kitchen
DEAR ABBY: I never want to eat my husband's cooking again. He refuses to follow recipes because he says they are "too hard." He doesn't use seasonings -- or he uses the wrong ones. An example: He recently put cinnamon and cloves on zucchini and agreed with me that it tasted terrible. In addition to almost never being tasty, his cooking is ...Read more
Lack Of Intimacy Has Put Marriage On The Ropes
DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married 10 years. Before that we dated for several years. We have a wonderful relationship in many ways, but we've never had the kind of sex life I would prefer. For a long time, we would talk about it and try to find ways to improve things. That communication at least made me feel like this was something we ...Read more
Dater With Pair Of Suitors Weighs Long-Term Outlook
DEAR ABBY: After a tumultuous breakup, I reconnected with two men through friends. I've known and liked them both for years. One lives in Europe; the other lives here in New York. Both are wonderful, respectful and caring, and I feel beyond lucky. Both say they are in love with me and want to pursue a serious future. Call me crazy, but I love ...Read more












