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Q: I get so discouraged over what I see in our country. So many problems driven by so much negativity and animosity. In the midst of all this arguing, what can one person do?

Jim: I'll start with a simple analogy. Let's say you're in a public bathroom drying your hands when you see a used paper towel on the floor. Do you pick it up and toss it ...Read more

Q: I get so discouraged over my inadequacies as a mother. I try so hard, but I never quite measure up to all the other moms who seem to do EVERYTHING right. I'm terrified that my kids will be damaged in some way. Help!?!

Jim: Listen carefully to some reassuring news: There's no such thing as a perfect family.

Now, that may not sound very ...Read more

Q: I've been a single mom for several years after an ugly divorce; I didn't want it, but it happened and there's no going back. Now I think I'm ready to move forward. I've been dating a great guy who has custody of his own kids. As we prepare for a new marriage and combining our households, what should we keep in mind?

Jim: Blending two ...Read more

Q: I'm concerned about my children growing up in a culture that seems to be increasingly selfish and entitled. It seems like narcissistic behavior is on the rise. Is there anything I can do to shield my kids from developing these negative traits themselves?

Jim: I completely understand your concerns. Our staff counselors say that although a ...Read more